Two years ago, I submitted one of my novels to a small publishing house. They’d requested the manuscript after the first chapter won in a local contest. I REALLY, REALLY wanted them to publish it. That seemed like the best, the most important thing for my manuscript at the time. But in the end, they declined, and of course, I was heartbroken.
The other day I realized I’m now grateful for that rejection. I wouldn’t have discovered what I really wanted to do with my writing and what industry I wanted to pursue if that publisher had agreed to take on my manuscript.
It brings to mind that quote about when God closes a door, somewhere He opens a window. Our struggles, rejections, and detours can ultimately bring us to achieve something greater than we might have imagined. As long as we keep working and believing and reaching.
What setbacks in your writing journey have become stepping stones?
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Awhile ago I queried a couple agents and found out I wasn't ready to be published yet. I was really disappointed by the reactions I received, but I'm glad I did it. I learned that writing isn't something you can rush.
Well, holy cow. Like everything? All the "close but no cigars" … I AM grateful for all of them, even if they hurt like the gangbusters at the time, every single set back has been the launch pad for greater growth. Great post Stacy!
Bethany – It's always hard to put your work out there. Way to go for trying, and even more, for turning it into a growing experience.
Ali – I think no matter if it's your first rejection or your hundredth, they each hurt. But I personally know you've kept going and used those setbacks to "launch" you to growth.
Several years ago I sent off my first novel. Instant rejection. Then I learned to rewrite and edit. SOOOOO glad that first un-edited piece of junk isn't out there to label me. Yikes that would be a nightmare. Here's to stepping stones disguised as failure.
Leisha – I know exactly what you mean, had something similar happen with my first book. But I'm still glad I tried. I, too, have learned a lot since that experience.
Whenever I get rejected for an anthology or a collection, its okay because afterwards, I always discover that I was lucky not to get involved! (Contract clauses, payment etc…)
eeleenlee – Wow. Sounds like you were lucky. It's definitely worth it to put your work out there, but you're right, you have to be cautious, too.